What's with all the negativity in the air? Anybody else feel it? There is a phrase that comes to mind right now: Save the drama for your mama! But then I realized, your mama doesn't want the drama either! That said, what do you do with those in your life that always complain? Don't put up with it. It really is that simple. If you make a stand that you will not put up with negativity, you'll be amazed at how quickly the negative people fall out of your life and how you start to attract only positive people. I know this because I've done it. I've taken that stand and it is absolutely amazing to see that people have stopped walking all over me. I've also found that I complain less, too.
Someone I look up to taught me a while ago that if you need to vent and get something off your chest, always come to the table with a solution. Without the solution, who wants to listen? If you have a solution, whomever you talk to will be more willing to talk through things with you because you are looking towards the positive outcome. You get out of life what you put into it. Simply put, negativity breeds negativity. The opposite is also true: positivity breeds positivity.
Here is the challenge: Focus only on the positive things in your life and see what happens. Life is fantastic and every day just gets better and better!! Enjoy the sunshine!
Sometimes this is easier said than done.
ReplyDeleteYou're absolutely right! I started out with little things, like replacing an angry thought with a positive thought. Over time it became easier.
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